I tried Bumble BFF!

Moving to a new city can be an exciting adventure, but it can also be a bit isolating. As someone who values genuine connections and a sense of community, I decided to give Bumble BFF a try to expand my social circle. While I had some interesting interactions, I ultimately found that the app didn’t quite align with my goals of forming deep and meaningful friendships.

During my two weeks on Bumble BFF, I matched with a few individuals who shared some of my interests. One was an avid ballet enthusiast, but our conversations never quite progressed to the point of scheduling a dance class together. Another match expressed a desire to visit Universal Studios, but financial constraints seemed to hinder our plans. While I suggested alternative budget-friendly activities, I couldn’t shake off the feeling that she was expecting me to cover her expenses.

Then there was the one who was more interested in building her Instagram profile than in genuine friendship. While I understand the appeal of social media, I’ve grown weary of its superficiality and the pressure to constantly curate one’s online presence.

After a series of these experiences, I decided to uninstall Bumble BFF. While I appreciate the technological advancements that connect us in various ways, I’ve come to realize that virtual interactions often fall short of fostering authentic connections.

I yearned for the warmth and camaraderie of a real community, so I ventured beyond the digital realm and joined a hiking group. This decision proved to be a turning point. Surrounded by like-minded individuals who shared a passion for the outdoors, I felt a sense of belonging that was missing from my Bumble BFF encounters.

Art party in Hollywood
“Sunset Kiss in Lala Land” – This is my first painting ever!

I also stepped out of my comfort zone and attended an art party hosted by someone I barely knew. Despite my initial apprehension, I followed my intuition and found myself surrounded by genuine and creative individuals who shared my artistic interests.

These experiences reaffirmed my belief that genuine connections are forged through shared experiences and mutual interests, not through carefully crafted profiles and fleeting conversations on apps.

So, I’ve decided to bid farewell to Bumble BFF and dating apps altogether. I’ve come to realize that the illusion of endless options often leads to desensitization and hinders the formation of meaningful connections. While I’ve met many people online and successfully built a community and esports team as a Twitch and PUBG partner, I’m not suggesting that technology is inherently evil. Productive ventures and genuine friendships can still flourish through it, and I deeply value the connections I’ve made.

However, I’ve become cautious about dispersing my energy to individuals who may not align with my vibe. I’ve consciously chosen to protect my energy and avoid diluting it any further. It’s a decision aimed at nurturing genuine connections and preserving the quality of my interactions.

My current goal is to cultivate self-sufficiency and embrace the possibility of living a fulfilling life on my own. While society often dictates a path toward marriage and parenthood, I’m embracing the idea that my path may lie in advocating for personal fulfillment and contributing to society through other avenues, such as volunteering or charity work.

To my future self, I offer this advice:

  1. Embrace the power of real-world interactions. Step outside your comfort zone and engage in activities that align with your interests. You’ll find that genuine connections often blossom in unexpected places.

  2. Don’t be afraid to experiment and try new things. You never know what you might discover about yourself and the people around you.

  3. Trust your intuition. It’s your guiding light, leading you towards authentic connections and fulfilling experiences.

  4. Embrace your uniqueness and don’t conform to societal expectations. Your path may be different, and that’s okay.

  5. Cultivate self-love and self-acceptance. These are the foundations for building meaningful relationships with others.

Remember, the journey to finding genuine connections is not always linear or easy. But by embracing your true self, pursuing your passions, and stepping out of your comfort zone, you’ll discover that the world is brimming with opportunities to form deep and meaningful friendships.

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